Mommy, Daddy, Can I Have a Gun?

Mommy, Daddy, Can I Have a Gun?

My son is a bit obsessed with the game of Skylanders at the present moment.  My husband and I were very late on the bandwagon of purchasing a Wii and even when we decided to; our son had to trade in his Nintendo DS and its games to purchase the game console and the starter package (we made up the difference).  Since then, it has been a tug of war to maintain the number of hours he (and his sister) can play the Wii, while at the same time monitor what he is playing.  When he first told me about Skylanders, one of the first things he said to me was, “Don’t worry Mommy, there are no guns and no blood,” and he was right, although I still think the game introduces him to mild violence.  But then I remembered how many Saturday mornings I spent glued to the T.V. watching Bugs Bunny, while I ate a bowl of cereal.  So I relaxed a bit.  Yet, I was surprised that just as he mentioned Skylanders to me, he instantly reassured me that the violence included no guns and blood.  At this point, you can guess that my husband and I are not gun enthusiasts by any stretch of the imagination and although my son has asked several times for a Nerf gun or something like that, we as good, but evil liberals, of course replied, “Hell no!  Nerf guns will just lead you to the dark side of NRA worship,” or something like that.  So by now, he knows that the question, “Mommy, Daddy, can I have a gun?” should never cross his lips.  But I know very well that in many households that question would be met with a resounding, “Thank God our Johnny (or Jill) has seen the light!”

But in all seriousness, as Americans have seen a spike in discourse regarding our increasingly dysfunctional gun culture and raising questions about how we can change it, I am continually intrigued in how parents shape their children’s views regarding guns.  There has been outrage this week regarding yet another gun “accident,” where a 5-year-old boy killed his 2-year-old sister with a Crickett firearm he received for his birthday.  Crickett, sold by Keystone Sporting Arms, is just one gun manufacturer that creates and markets guns for children, which as the New York Times reported on this past January, has become a lucrative business. On its website, Keystone has images of children (customers) in various poses showing off their new “toy.”

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These pictures are not new.  Photographs of children with their guns have a long history.  Parents, especially by the early 20th century, always had pride in showing off their children’s  love  for their “toys,” including guns.  I equate guns with toys for a specific reason because as I look at these past and present images, the main reason to own a gun is rarely shown.  Guns kill.  Period.  They kill animals and people.  And I wonder if children, in the past and now, really understood that a gun can kill. I wonder if that five-year-old knew that he could kill his sister?  I ask this because if you look at these images, that reality is hidden or highly edited.  It makes sense of course because if you are going to market to children, it’s smart to downplay death and claim that guns are fun and promote family bonding.

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Targeting children as consumers is also not new.  The child as a consumer emerged in the early-twentieth century.  Retailers began to expand their children’s departments so that they could entice both the mother and child (fathers, retailers assumed, did not shop for their children).  Department stores catered to the female shopper, especially the mother who chose items for herself and her family.  However, retailers soon recognized the influence children had on the purchases their mothers made and they began to structure their advertising and department store space to ignite children’s desires and cultivate their consumer acumen. Both children’s and toy departments expanded in size and number. To reach children meant capturing lifelong consumers.[1]

gun-ad-purseThis was not lost on gun manufactures’ advertisers. They clearly understood this connection and created advertising especially for children, and especially for boys.  Advertisements for both fake and real guns flourished starting in the 1950s as guns became synonymous with apple pie.  American gun culture has a long history and one that has changed drastically since the late 1960s, which historian Jill Lepore traces in the New Yorker, but in marketing guns to children, gun manufacturers not only gained lifelong consumers, but also shaped the belief that guns engendered family bonds that lasted a lifetime, which helped suppress the notion that a gun is a deadly weapon that can kill in a blink of an eye, a fact that one 5 -year-old boy in Kentucky will never forget.

As I began to look at past advertisements, I was struck by the underlying gendered message. Like advertisements for matching mother and daughter outfits that somehow create some magical bond between the two, gun advertisements often deployed the same mystical world for father and sons.

KLBlog 993During the 1920s, Remington ran an advertisement with the title, “Father Will Show You How to Handle Your Rifle”  In the copy, the father explains how to handle the gun, while at the same time, advises his son in proper use the gun, “Here’s what I also want this rifle to teach you – respect the rights of others.  Do not shoot indiscriminately.”  Conveniently behind the two is a target on the tree (obviously the tree had no rights) to be used after the lesson.  It was a solemn message for an obviously touching moment between father and son.  Although not explicit, the father conveyed the very danger of the object in his hands.  Fast forward a couple of decades and there is the same feeling.  Here, in an ad for bullets, a father and son enjoy a picnic lunch and a beautiful day for hunting.  Yet gone is the cautious message found in the previous advertisement. Now, as Super-X assures the male consumer, the experience of hunting with this particular bullet and the rifles you chose will lead to a long lasting bond and loving memories.

167576_originalEven in actual “toy” rifle ads (could the Daisy air rifle be considered a toy?), the object encourages and strengthens family bonds and reinforces gender roles.

Gun culture has always been gendered male. Gun advertisements mainly focused how guns demonstrate masculinity.  For young males, gun usage was rite of passage from boyhood to manhood.

women and gun2Yet, what about women?  Well women are no strangers to guns either, and gun manufactures always saw them as possible consumers, but the messages in these advertisements have wrestled with traditional gender ideology.  Does a woman owning a gun denote strength or highlight her weakness? By the 1980s, gun manufacturers and the NRA encouraged women to become gun owners, creating literature, i.e. Women and Guns, as well as feminized weaponry.  picture_10_1

By the mid 1990s, approximately 12-20 million women owned guns.[2]  So why wouldn’t a daughter ask, “If mommy owns a gun, why can’t I?” In addition to matching outfits, the mother daughter can be further highlighted with matching Hello Kitty rifles.

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Pink and frilly guns has spawned other goods for children, including T-shirts, bibs, and who knows what else. Yet, when gun manufacturers market guns to children, announcing that guns in children’s hands are safe and fun, it obscures the real intent of guns.  Guns do not belong in children’s hands.  Guns are not fun.  Guns do not promote family bonding.  Just ask the 5-year-old if he thinks guns are fun now.  Guns kill.  End of story.


[1] For more on the history of consumerism and childhood see Dan Thomas Cook, The Commodification of Childhood: The Children’s Clothing Industry and the Rise of the Child Consumer (Durham, NC: Duke University Press, 2004); Ellen Seiter, Sold Separately: Mothers and Children in Consumer Culture (Bloomington: Indiana University Press, 1993); and David Nasaw, “Children and Commercial Culture: Moving Pictures in the Early Twentieth Century,” in Small Worlds: Children and Adolescents in America, 1850-1950, eds. Elliot West and Paula Petrik (Lawrence: University Press of Kansas, 1992), 14-25.

[2] See Laura Browder, Her Best Shot: Women and Guns in America (Chapel Hill: University of North Carolina Press, 2006).

Cheryl Lemus earned her PhD from Northern Illinois University in 2011. Her dissertation, “‘The Maternity Racket’: Medicine, Consumerism, and the American Modern Pregnancy, 1876-1960,” examines the rise of the modern pregnancy in 20th-century America. She is mainly interested in gender and women’s history, the history of medicine in America, and the rise of consumer culture.

5 thoughts on “Mommy, Daddy, Can I Have a Gun?

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      If I want to give my kid a gun then I’ll do it. If I want my kid to have the power to kill then that is my decision.

      Guns are meant to hunt and kill humans. Do you think I am under any illusions about that?

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        @Diogenes I’m unclear about the tone behind your comment. Could you clarify? I’m uncomfortable with the notion of “hunting” people.

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      First off guns are a type of tool. If used wrong someone can use this tool to do wrong. A hammer is a tool and if use wrong can kill. A vehicle is a tool and if used wrong can kill. Certain chemicals if used wrong can kill. Non of these kill people because they exist. I have experienced someone killing another accidentally with one of these mentioned above. But the only one that is being sought after to ban or limit is guns. It is tragic to loose someone by any of the tools mentioned above. Vehicle are not endanger of being limited or the right to use or own one being revoked nationally and with deadly force. Yes I mentioned the tool hammer, I almost killed my friend with one as the head of the hammer came off flew across the work area and struck him in the chest. As he fell to the ground grabbing his chest I ran to him and did what I could to get him breathing again. Wow what an awful thought to have killed someone.

      Now back to guns. The second amendment is for us the general population to have the ability to protect ourselves against an unruly foe foreign or domestic. Today it is shaping up to be at home. The Homeland Security Division is stock piling ammo, why are they dong that?

      From the article on site

      — Congress Seeks Answers on Huge Homeland Security Ammo Contracts—

      “”””Now, however, at least one member of Congress is proposing to stop funding DHS unless and until it explains the controversial arms buildup, which has sparked widespread suspicion even among Obama’s most devoted supporters. Speaking to We Are Change activist and reporter Luke Rudkowski at the Conservative Political Action Conference this month, liberty-minded Rep. Tim Huelskamp (R-Kan.) said that more than a few of his colleagues were also trying to find out why the administration would be stockpiling so much firepower for use within the “Homeland.”

      “They have no answer for that question. They refuse to answer to answer that…. They refuse to let us know what is going on, so I don’t really have an answer for that,” Rep. Tim Huelskamp explained, adding that multiple members of Congress were still trying to find out. “It comes down to: During the budget process, during the appropriations process, are we willing to hold DHS’s feet to the fire? We’re going to find out…. I say we don’t fund them ’til we get an answer. Those types of things really challenge Americans. They’re worried about this administration.””””

      If you can find old people that are still alive that lived through what Hitler did to the German citizens and the neighboring countries. You will hear a retelling of what happened and it parallels what is happening now in America. People are often killed one way or another with different types of tools. Guns are a tool and used correctly protects our liberty and freedoms. If a group of people come to take that away and they are armed better that the population then welcome to the slaughter, not of people but your freedoms and rights to live as you see fit.

      Now the problem with just giving a tool as a gift to anyone. Training and respect for that tool and what and how it is to be used. The tool (Gun) I taught my kids not matter what type you have (including one fashioned from your own and) never point it at anyone. Always treat it as if it where ready to be used (loaded) If they did it would be taken away and/or destroyed. As they got older I sent them to hunter safety class. They watched ( I watched also) a film where to boys went target shooting. One of them broke into their own Fathers gun case and took a rifle. While shooting at the target the other boy ran to see how well his friend had done. The boy shooting the target did not know his friend was running to the target at the same time the boy fired the rifle. The boy was hit with the bullet and later died. The boy that fired the rifle was charged with killing him and jailed. The tool (hammer) I taught them never to use it towards someone (the head of the hammer could come off). And to never hit anyone with it. it is to be used correctly. The tool vehicle is also an item if used wrong can kill someone. When I was a young man around 15 a young man that lived near by, while backing out of the driveway in his Mom’s big 4×4 ran over his niece, crushed here head under the tire. This was an awful accident, no one said the trucks had to be banned. And limit who can have one. The tool chemicals, I taught them not to mix chemicals because they may turn into something else that could cause death if inhaled. I used the chemicals baking soda and vinegar to give them an example.

      The tool (gun) is the most sought after to ban and limit the ownership of. This tool is for protection and the right to defend ourselves not hunting. Read the second amendment

      Amendment II

      A well regulated Militia, being necessary to the security of a free State, the right of the people to keep and bear Arms, shall not be infringed.

      No tools to use then we are week. And a communist government takes over no fight because we have no tools to fight back with.

      USA all or nothing. Die free do not live in bondage,

      See you at the next American Revolution. Whether it is as the voting booth or other means is up to all of us.

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